Most people think that communication is the most important thing in a marriage.  I hate to burst your knowledge bubble, but research has shown that it's not.  

What is most important is friendship.  Being friends - having the ability to talk about a lot of things without judgment - is the true foun...

When was the last time you said, "I am so thankful for you."  or passed on a compliment to your spouse?  

If it was yesterday, good job.  If it's been months, this article will remind you of the importance of practicing gratitude more often.  

In the busyness of daily life, it’s easy to focus on w...

As we get older in our marriage, we tend to drift apart.  We forget that we were supposed to be in this together and that it's not a solo endeavor - it’s more of a team sport. A thriving partnership is built on collaboration, shared goals, and a deep commitment to supporting each other through life’...

When my husband and I got married over 38 years ago, we had been dating for eight years.  We knew each other very well.  We had a deep friendship, chemistry, and a desire to spend a lot of time together.  Neither one of us wanted to experience the pain of divorce.  Many members of my own family had ...

A Midlife Marriage Assessment

Marriage is a journey—one that evolves over time, especially in midlife. The kids grow up, careers shift, and priorities change. One day, you wake up and realize that your relationship is no longer what it used to be. Maybe it feels like you and your spouse are just co...